Overcoming Procrastination

1. Recognize the enemy (What’s stopping you from doing what you have to do to achieve your goals) Don’t let the fear of failure stop you from taking a shot, the reason you fear is because it holds importance.

2. Start doing what you have to do now (Invest your time in it and you’ll definitely see results, sacrifice things like Netflix, youtube, games.etc and get what you have to do done.

3. Be committed in what you do ( make sure it’s consistent and make it your habit to get things done, it has never been easy but it’s not impossible).

4. Start by taking small steps and raise the bar as you go. (don’t go too hard on yourself, allow yourself to adjust to it).

5. Find an environment or place where you are not easily distracted and move out of your comfort zone.

5 Life Changing Books

1. Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F**k (Mark Manson )

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is all about coming to terms with all of the unavoidable insignificant shortcomings in life and then choosing to not give a f*ck about them. It’s about learning how to give a f*ck about the few things that truly matter.

2. I Will Teach You To Be Rich (Ramit Sethi)

It goes through the rules of how you can financially set yourself up so you can be set off.

3. What Everybody Is Saying (Joe Navarro)

With this book, you can easily read people and their body language. It also helps you read people easily.

4. The Influential Mind (Tali Sharot)

It talks about how people are influenced by emotions rather than facts. Just because you feel something doesn’t mean it’s right. It also helps with communication.

5. Public Speaking For Success (Dale Carnegie)

It helps you have better social skills and be able to express yourself to the world. It gives simple steps you can follow to be a better public speaker.

The Secret to Self Discipline

Life is all about becoming all that we can possibly be. It’s having the full development of all of your potential and wise use of all your resources.

THE KEYS TO DISCIPLINE

1: It’s the awareness of the need for and the value of discipline.

2: The willingness, more than that the eagerness to maintain your new discipline deliberately wisely, and consistently.

3: The commitment to master the circumstances of your daily life. Make something of the sun and the rain.

THE BENEFITS

– To feel self worth and the surging feeling of accomplishment

– It alters your life direction

-It cooperates with nature, what is meant for you shall come to you

-It attracts opportunity

THE FIVE R TECHNIQUE (By Jay Shetty)

Reason – What is the deep reason you want to do it.

Research – The more you absorb information the more you can create transformation. (e.g. books, podcasts, and people)

Repetition – Make it a priority and stay consistent. (Repeat the process)

Responsibility – You can join a group of people with the same goal as you so you don’t just rely on your motivation only. It will push you to take responsibility and accountability.

Reward – Make sure to recognize the growth you’re making and reward yourself for it.

Self Displine

What is self discipline?

Self-discipline is the ability to push yourself forward, stay motivated, and take action, regardless of how you’re feeling, physically or emotionally. You are showing it when you intentionally choose to pursue something better for yourself, and you do it in spite of factors like distractions, hard work, or unfavorable odds.

Discipline is about getting it done because it needs to be done.

The center of bringing a dream to fruition is self-discipline. It’s getting command of your mind and be able to choose actions that are in your best interest.

Discipline isn’t punishment, it is the definition of self-love because you have a behavior towards yourself that is loving and you want the best for yourself. Don’t allow people to determine you feel and think.

When motivation dies, you can let discipline take its place. If we do not discipline ourselves the world will do it most harshly. Do whatever you can to be the best version of yourself. Remember what you do today can change your life tomorrow. Days turn into months and months into years, so be aware of what you spend your time on.

Be all that you can be and don’t let habits. drag you down from the full development of what you can have and are capable of having.

Anyone reading this: Be the best version of yourself and push yourself to new heights.

Self love

What is self love ?

Self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth.

Tips for Self Love

1.Taking responsibility for your life

Only you have the power to take responsibility to move your life forward.

2.Believe in yourself

Jim Carrey once said “I already have those things I just don’t have access to them yet”. So it’s all about your mindset and what you invest your time in.

3.There are no wrong paths

Understand that those paths are the ones that lead you to your success. You are not defined by what someone says is a failure for you because it’s that same failure that points you to the right direction.

4.Meditate Daily

Clear out the negative thought process and fill your mind with positive words. Positive energy attracts positive energy.If you are always negative you blocking out all the good things.

5.Take care of yourself

Treat yourself the same way you’d want others to treat you. Always stay clean and keep your cup full (learn new different things and upgrade yourself) and you will have so much to offer to the world and fulfil your purpose.

6. Go within and connect

Go inside yourself and find that source where you know all things are possible. Never look for the acceptance of others.

7. List things you are grateful for each day

If you focus on things that don’t that you don’t have then you’ll never have enough, be grateful.

It begins and ends with you.

7 Ways to level up in your 20’s

1.Be Disciplined

Discipline is the glue that brings all these things I’m about to mention together.Be committed to putting in the work or nothing will get done. You must be willing to sacrifice some things to achieve your goals.

2. Plan Everything

If you fail to plan then plan to fail. Get a diary to write down list of things you plan to achieve for the day, it helps achieve your goals.

3. Educate Yourself

Google is free!!!! And also read more books on new things you’d like to learn, I will also suggest audiobooks or podcasts while you walking, driving, doing chores etc

4. Mind the Business that pays you

Spend your time on something that will benefit you and stay out of people’s business. Try not to think about what someone else will think about you when you want to try out something.

5. Invest in yourself

Look the part, Know your part, Be the part and Dress the part. You should write down your long term plans or learn a new skill. Take care of your personal hygiene, skin and how you smell.

6. Learn how to budget

Don’t overspend, learn how to budget and save money. That’s where discipline comes in, saving for the next era while achieving your goals.

7. Pick your friends Carefully

People you spend your time around or your friends determine how you end up. It does get harder to make friends as we grow older but make sure to choose friends who have similar goals, values, etc. Don’t feel forced to keep the same friends forever, if it’s not working out don’t force it.

Hope you like this and I would love to hear your inputs.